Enter the quiet strength of the present moment.
Let the part of you that’s steady and true step forward - breath by breath, word by honest word - held by firelight and brotherhood.
No preaching - just a space to tune into what’s real.
No performance - only presence, truth, and the courage to stay.
SACRED group agreements (Sovereignty, Attunement, Care, Respect, Ethics, Discernment) guide the way.
What we’ll experience
A guided, consent-based evening focused on nervous system steadiness, honest dialogue, and practical integration - hosted by Oasis Heart in a space that brings grounding, clarity, and a kind human experience.
Together, we will:
Arrive, ground, and share a meal - a plant-based, gluten-free community dinner that settles the body before the work.
Set intention - name what you’re navigating, with courage, and allow the Spirit of the Fire to become an ally on the journey.
Fire Dialogue - honest conversation and reflective listening; speak if you wish, sit in presence if you prefer.
Receive the grounding of the salt room - a restorative pause to exhale, soften, and integrate.
Offering to the fire - a simple ritual to burn what’s complete and light the way forward.
Close with integration - reconnect, integrate, and leave clearer than you arrived.
Rooted in OasisHeart values of transparency, sovereignty, care, and accountability, this circle invites men to practice staying - especially when it gets hot.
Why attend?
You want calm, clarity, and connection without the performative edge.
You’re craving a community that feels safe, honest, and useful.
You’re ready to shift the story you tell yourself about yourself.
You value nervous system steadiness and want tools that translate to real life.
You’re willing to practice presence — with yourself, with others, with the world you impact.
Our agreements (SACRED)
Sovereignty - you are your own authority; everything is invitational.
Attunement - we move at the speed of safety and presence.
Consent & Care - we support personal choice and we listen to understand, not to fix.
Respect & Reciprocity - for time, space, and each person’s path, and honour to our ancestors.
Ethics - confidentiality and consent are non-negotiable.
Discernment - take what serves, leave what doesn’t.
What to bring, to support your Soul’s blooming:
Water, journal, pen, and layered clothing
Tobacco for your prayers (loose tobacco can be purchased at any tobacco store in your neighborhood)
A small offering for the fire (paper note, herbs, fresh or dried flowers, seeds to make a community prayer altar with them as we pray in community)
Anything needed for your comfort (shawl/blanket)
The flow of the evening
5:00–6:00 PM Arrival, Community Meal, and Salt Room access
6:15 PM Doors close; ritual begins with the lighting of the fire
6:30–8:30 PM Community Circle & Fire Dialogue (truth-telling, reflection, witnessing)
8:30–9:30 PM Closing Tea & Salt Room grounding
Note:
This is a peer-led mystical space, not a substitute for therapy or medical care. Please participate within your own capacity.
Space is intentionally intimate to preserve presence and personal care.
🎟️ Secure your spot early — our events often fill.
Let the fire burn what’s done. Let your presence light the way.
By the Fire, we stay.